Leading can be messy.
Leading can be exhausting.
Leading can be the most rewarding thing you ever do.
There are so many opinions on what “THE KEY” to being a great leader is.
Frankly, there isn’t one. Leadership is the high school janitor’s giant ring of keys. Leadership is complex and multifaceted.
With that image in mind. We now have this questions. “What is the key ring?”
What’s the thing that keeps all of the keys of successful leadership held together?
I believe the key ring of leadership is Grace.
Let’s define Grace. If you are speeding down the highway and get pulled over, here is what could happen.
- You get a ticket. This is because you are under the law and your ticket is justice, and what you deserve.
- You get a warning. This is forgiveness. The cop could have given you the ticket, but decides to be forgiving.
- The cop walks up to your window and gives you a jelly donut. You are getting something you don’t deserve for being in the wrong, this is Grace. (Just a side note to my fellow believers of Christ…consider this analogy for a moment in your relationship with God. Powerful to consider God gives us jelly donuts everyday.)
When’s the last time you extended Grace to someone you lead?
How are you going above and beyond the expectations of those you lead?
Don’t you want Grace extended to you? My marriage wouldn’t be what it is if my wife and I didn’t exchange Grace regularly. My relationship with my children…same thing. My team at work, ditto.
Now, before someone comments that, “but sometimes you don’t have a choice. As a leader a time will come when you have to fire someone.” True. But do it with Grace. Make sure you really know the whole story first. I’ve never fired anyone who was surprised. Everyone is gifted and capable at doing the right work, But if you judge a tree for it’s ability to have empathy and walk with an upset costumer towards a resolution, you’ll end up with the a big pile of wood chips and no oxygen.
TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS:
- Look for new ways to develop the skills of your team.
- React to screw ups by working with them to fix it.
- Overreact to right decisions and under-react to mistakes.
- Get out of your office every day and be present with your team.
- When you think you have given enough, you have almost started giving enough.
- Remember, what gets rewarded gets repeated.
- Create a great environment by getting the wrong people off the team.
- ?What other Tips and Suggestions Do You Have?
WHAT YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW:
- Consider a situation you are facing. What will the jelly donut look like?
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Question: What other tips do you have to lead with Grace? Where do you disagree with me in this analogy of Leadership? What do you believe the key ring is? I’d appreciate your thoughts, please comment.